Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Google It

GOOGLE, NEUTRALITY, FREEDOM



I’m disappointed that I won’t have the freedom to express my sexual interests the way I want to in my sex blog on Google. I will have to concentrate on the writing and use images that are aesthetic rather pornographic in their impact. It might be a good thing. It might make me write better. Maybe my blog will be better because of the restriction, but I will miss the freedom of expression. As I understand it, I will still be able to write frankly and explicitly about sex. I don’t think Google is interested in extreme censorship of the writing. I don’t think they object to the literary exploration and examination of sex in personal experience. It’s the pornographic images and advertisements with links to hard core porn sites that Google objects to. It’s the promotion and commercialization of tawdry, extreme, and debauched sex that Google wants to eschew. It’s the sex trade, corporate exploitation of human sexuality, that offends Google, and I can’t fault them for that stand. It is the personal, human aspect of sex that interests me.

It’s always something, isn't it? What the fuck is “net neutrality”? Another political abomination? Who made that up and what does it mean? Ultimately, I don’t care. I’m going to keep saying what I have to say and finding a way to get it out there. I’m going to keep writing and attempting to publish what I write. And, I expect to keep exploring and writing aesthetically and explicitly about my sexuality.






Photo by Geoffrey Fairchild, 2010, under a CC License.  Retrieved February 25, 2015, from https://www.flickr.com/photos/36770908@N08/4385543669/

Friday, February 20, 2015

Sex at Home

GUY FRIENDS, GUY SEX, HOME


handsome guys running barefoot through a green field

I want my home to be a comfortable place for sex with the guys I like. I want to have sex with guys in my home. There’s a lot of things I’d like my home to be, but a comfortable place for sex with guys is one of them. Clean. Neat. Comfortable. Pleasant. I want my home to be a place where guys want to come to get naked and masturbate. I want guys to come over to my house, get naked, make out, masturbate, and lie in bed with me. I want masturbation buddies to visit with me in my home. I want to have sex with friends, and I want to make friends with the guys I have sex with. I want guys to feel like they can hang out in my home and enjoy having sex with me. I want to like the guys I have sex with, and I want to have sex with guys that I like.

Friendship is great. What else is there in life? Isn’t it what we live for? Isn’t it how we live? Family and friendship. Sex isn’t everything to me, and it’s not the most important thing. I don’t want to have sex with everyone. Sex is not a condition for friendship or relationship; it’s a possibility. Love isn’t defined or confined by sex. Affection may be a consequence of sex. How can I not feel warmth for a guy with whom I have kissed and touched and shared intense physical pleasure? I have male friends and colleagues for whom I feel no sexual attraction or interest. Affection and fellow feeling persist in the absence of sex. But, what point is there in having sex without affection and personal interest? Why bother with sex if you’re not going to make it personal?

I love sex with men. I enjoy sex with men. It’s a great thrill and an adventure. I never did develop the same interest and enthusiasm for women. I don’t know why. I don’t feel like I have to figure it out. If I thought sex were more important, I’d probably want to figure it out. But, it’s not as important to me as other things are.





Photo by Smallz+Raskind. ©2012 Whalefilm. Retrieved February 20, 2015, from http://www.whalefilm.tv/wp-content/uploads/1032/10/GUYS-OF-SUMMER-1.png